# Samaritans recommends giving the gift of listening for Christmas - Link: https://fundraising.co.uk/2016/12/01/samaritans-recommends-giving-gift-listening-christmas/ - Published: 2016-12-01T06:37:35+00:00 - Author: Howard Lake **Suicide prevention charity Samaritans is encouraging the British public to avoid striving for a perfect Christmas this year and have what it is calling a #RealChristmas instead. It argues that listening to people over the festive period could save lives.** To help people listen to others in need of support, Samaritans has produced a set of free vouchers that can be given as Christmas presents on their own, or along with staples like chocolates, bubble bath, cuff-links or socks. Each voucher can be personalised and entitles the person receiving it to some one- to-one listening time from the giver. The charity suggests this could be over a coffee, while going for a walk or as part of a night in with a friend watching a box set. ## Advertisement The [vouchers are available to download](http://www.samaritans.org/frommetoyou) for free along with a free guide to having a #RealChristmas. It gives tips on how to be a good listener, what to do when someone doesn’t want to talk, and how to look after yourself as well as supporting others this Christmas. The charity is also inviting donations of **£4.26** as another way of giving the gift of listening. That is the cost to the charity of taking a life-saving call. ![A family argues over a board game at Christmas.](https://wfay6x.infiniteuploads. cloud/2016/11/samaritans-real-christmas-board-game.jpg) _Not everyone has an idyllic Christmas, says Samaritans_ Samaritans points out that “2016 has been a year of challenge and change for everyone”. Health, family, work, relationships, money issues or feelings of loneliness, isolation or uncertainty could be making life tough for many people. It hopes that its [#RealChristmas](http://www.samaritans.org/realchristmas) vouchers will enable more people to open up at Christmas when they might feel these problems more acutely, and ask for the support they need. ![samaritans-real-christmas-2](https://wfay6x.infiniteuploads.cloud/2016/12/samaritans- real-christmas-2.jpg) _Christmas can be stressful for many, say Samaritans_ Samaritans CEO Ruth Sutherland said: > “On average, more than 500 people take their own lives in the UK every month and > every death from suicide is a devastating tragedy.  So, away from the idyllic > images and all the hype around the season’s celebrations, let’s get real about > how we can save lives, not just at Christmas but all year round.  And that’s by > listening to how a person who may be having a tough time really thinks and feels.” Keith King has been a Samaritans volunteer for 8 years and will be on the helpline over Christmas. He said: > “Samaritans isn’t saying don’t have a good Christmas this year, but try to put > aside the demands of the season and focus on the support you may need or can give. > If you can, spend time listening to somebody who needs it. And if you’re the one > who’s struggling or feeling overwhelmed, remember you can always speak to someone > by calling Samaritans on 116 123. If talking on the phone is tricky, you can email, > text or write to Samaritans too. Find out more on our website at [samaritans.org](http://samaritans.org). > We are always there. Even at Christmas.” ![A voucher for my nan from Samaritans](https://wfay6x.infiniteuploads.cloud/2016/ 12/samaritans-realchristmas-phone-call-voucher.jpg) _Listening is the best gift you can give at Christmas._ * **[the tree agency partners with Shoreditch Trust to offer teens creative workshops](https://fundraising.co.uk/2017/01/30/tree-agency-partners-shoreditch-trust-offer-teens-creative-workshops/)**( 30 January 2017) * **[Notts-based agency completes pro-bono campaign for CP Sport](https://fundraising.co.uk/2017/02/10/notts-based-agency-completes-pro-bono-campaign-cp-sport/)**( 10 February 2017) * **[7 great corporate fundraising partnerships to end March 2017](https://fundraising.co.uk/2017/03/30/7-great-corporate-fundraising-partnerships-end-march-2017/)**( 30 March 2017) ![Loading](https://fundraising.co.uk/wp-content/plugins/page-views-count/ajax-loader- 2x.gif)